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Sunday, April 26, 2026

Getting My Groove Back

After the turmoil of the past 5 weeks surrounding my mom's fall and my dad's subsequent fall apart, I stepped back to focus on my mental health. With my mom at home and all her care in place, my dad continued to badger me about removing the caregivers from the home. The conversations were a never-ending loop. I continue to provide supervision of my mom's needs, but will now utilize our geriatric care manager to share information with my father. I also reminded myself that the agency will contact me if anything concerning is happening.

I won't lie, stepping back has been difficult, but mentally, I realized how much of a toll this has taken on me. As the week went on, I started to feel more like myself. I reminded myself that I can't be good to anyone if I don't take care of my needs. 

Weekly Rundown
Sunday: Trail Sisters Run 6.5 miles
Monday: Yoga with Adriene, strength training
Tuesday: Fluid running
Wednesday: trail run 9 miles
Thursday: Yoga with Adriene, strength training
Friday: run 3.1 miles
Saturday: Yoga with Adriene

Our warm spell came to an end! On Sunday morning, I woke up to cold and windy weather. Thankfully, I had a Trail Sisters run scheduled. Otherwise, I would have stayed in bed. We met at 'my' preserve and ran the main trail. It was wet and messy, but much better than my run on Wednesday. We had a new Trail Sister join us, and I hope she'll be back next Sunday!


Monday's strength workout was all about snatches again--we started out with a snatch drill and progression, followed by 8 rounds (every 1:30min) of high hang snatch and snatch at 55-65%. I did these empty barbell, which is 35#. They went really well, SJ was pleased, so next week I plan to increase the weight.

For accessory work, we had 15 minutes on the clock to do 3-5 rounds of:
-100m sled push
-:20 rower sprint
-max effort push-ups
-:20 plate pinch catch

I headed to the preserve early Wednesday morning. It was a beautiful spring day! I had no plan but to hopefully see some deer and stay out of the mud. I had to make a detour to the east preserve to use the bathroom and decided to check on the owl's nest while I was there. Much to my surprise, I saw a little owlet peeking out of the opening in the tree! I hurried to get my phone ready for a photo, and another little head popped up behind him! They kept ducking in and out of the opening, and I was mesmerized. I wished that I had a better camera--they were so cute! I didn't want to stick around too long because I feared the adults would come after me. I wonder how much longer until the owlets leave the nest. 

Sorry about the poor resolution on this photo. Trust me, they were so cute!

The rest of my run was good, too. I saw some deer, mostly sleeping. Birds were singing, squirrels were squirreling, and the wildflowers were popping up. I did encounter a little mud, but it was much better than when I was there on Sunday. This is a fun time of year to be in the woods because every time I go, it's a different place! Hooray for spring!




I woke up incredibly stiff and sore on Thursday--I'm not sure if it's because I added Fluid Running back in this week or from my long run on Wednesday or what. Before heading to the gym for my strength workout, I did a long yoga sesh with Adriene, which helped a lot. We always warm up prior to lifting as well. The strength workout started with a coach-led review of the lifts:
-3x5 Clean Rack Deliveries (I used an empty barbell 35#)
-2x3 Tall Clean (muscle clean using an empty barbell)
-2-3 Jerk Balance (35#)
The workout was 8 rounds every 1:30 of a High Hang Clean and Jerk (55#)

This is not the best photo, but it is my best jerk of the eight I did.
Happy with my body position--coach said there should be a straight line from left shoulder to left hip

For Accessory work, 15 minutes on the clock:
5 rounds: 
-12 Turkish situps with overhead plate (15#)
-12 reverse hypers on the GHD
-12 max effort empty barbell (35#) thrusters
I finished at 15:02!

When I headed out for my Friday morning bike path run, my legs felt heavy. I tried to push through it, with the hopes of the discomfort dissipating, but it never resolved. My heart rate kept spiking. I made the difficult decision to turn around and head home. I reminded myself that a) I was able to see a beautiful sunrise, b) I added Fluid Running back in this week AND ran 9 miles on Wednesday, and c) I have had incredible stress over the past month. That last one was me giving myself grace, something I'm not good at. Even though I had a busy day at work, I felt good and was unflappable. I joked that I finally got my groove back. Sometimes doing less is more!


How was your week? Have you ever seen baby owls? Any other baby animals in the wild?  What was your favorite workout this week? Mine was definitely that long trail run on Wednesday!

My reading has fallen off a bit, but on Thursday, I will have a Mini Book Review post for April!

I'm linking up with Deborah and Kim for the Weekly Rundown. 




14 comments :

  1. I’m glad you had a good week — you deserve it after all you’ve been through.
    After doing a 7 mile hike this weekend I’m extra-impressed by your long trail runs!

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  2. I am glad you are prioritizing your mental health and setting boundaries, as hard as it is to do! I wish your dad would come to his senses as he’s making the situation so much harder! I really sympathize with you!

    I had a good week of OTF workouts and even fit one in when I was in NJ for work this week. My favorite was yesterday’s workout. We started at a 1% incline and increased by 1% every minute, peaking at 7. Then we did some all out runs at 1% and then did the hill workout in reverse, starting at 7%. I felt really strong!

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    1. I love doing those hill ladders. I did them a lot this winter when I couldn't run outside due to our crazy weather. I cannot believe how much they paid off for a very strong spring of running!

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  3. First, those owlets! My heart!

    Second, what a gift that the deer feel so safe with you that they don't get up off the ground when you come by.

    Third, you are doing the right thing. I'm sorry it's been so hard and so draining, but you are right to protect your peace. I'm so glad you can take some time for you and it will benefit you in the long run.

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    1. I have to go out there later this week to take my mom to the doctor. I feel much better mentally after some time away.

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  4. Glad to read that you and your family had a much better week! You sure deserve it.Hope things continue to move in that direction for you

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  5. How amazing to see those baby owls, Wendy! I'll tell my husband about it and he'll be super envious because he'd love to see them (me, too), but he's really fascinated with photographing owls.

    I'm sorry to hear that your run on Friday had to be aborted, but look at that sunrise you wouldn't have seen otherwise. Your reasons to turn around and go home are solid and it's good to hear that you were able to give yourself some grace.

    Have a great week!

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    1. I wish that I had a better camera to photograph those owls--especially knowing that your husband is a photographer--just tell him to use his imagination when he looks at the photo. They had the softest little feathers and kept popping in and out of the opening to peek at me. Oh my heart!

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  6. I'm so envious of your beautiful trail! I'm starting to dread summer running- the trails down here get really overgrown and buggy, ugh.
    Glad things are feeling good again (other than the Friday run- it happens!) All baby animals are cute, but baby owls must be amazing- I've never seen any.
    i'm looking forward to your book reviews! Right now I'm reading one you talked about last month- Lake Effect. I love it!

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    1. The trails here get very overgrown and buggy in the summer. It's pretty gross--but then fall comes and I forgive Mother Nature again, lol

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  7. One more thing- do you have any favorite Adriene videos to reccomend?

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    1. I do have a few stretch/mobility ones that I return to regularly:
      https://youtu.be/6s5MEhUblzQ?si=3PCZSzh8YEJo5HPI
      https://youtu.be/2IcWJobNDck?si=ukVA-RD_zXqHWAN2
      https://youtu.be/lxuTCHJSers?si=YqDvQUIoMBh_-36H
      https://youtu.be/BPK9WNtpBgk?si=i8Y60cAFum0cxF7y
      https://youtu.be/6s5MEhUblzQ?si=ds_yLbG-csmFNCPi
      https://youtu.be/aYDRQ4mqNgs?si=BjbuT0Gcc9-6tn_G
      https://youtu.be/1G5q66RExDU?si=JXaZ2GXogdbjejWp
      It's hard to navigate her channel, but my favorites seem to pop up easily!

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