Saturday, October 12, 2024

Savoring the Good

I will never complain about the gorgeous fall weather we've been having this year. Yes, we need rain. But I know what's coming--plenty of precipitation as we move into late fall toward winter. I'll take this. Especially when you consider what's happening in other parts of the country.

My heart goes out to everyone affected by both hurricanes Helena and Milton. If you've followed me on this blog over the years, you know that my family has spent a lot of time on the Gulf Coast of Florida, especially on Anna Maria Island. It just breaks my heart to see the level of destruction. I can't imagine facing the rebuilding process. 

Weekly Rundown
Sunday: Ice Age Trail run 8.4 miles/1500 ft
Monday: CrossFit with 2000m running
Tuesday: Fluid Running
Wednesday: CrossFit
Thursday: Ice Age Trail run 8.5 miles
Friday: Yoga with Adrienne
Saturday: run 6.5 miles

Mammoth Trail Challenge Miles: 25/44

We were still up in Wisconsin on Sunday and I wanted to get more miles for the Mammoth Challenge. After Saturday's trail run and impromptu waterski, I didn't know how my legs would feel. They felt surprisingly fresh! I ran one of my favorites, the Gibraltar Segment. It was a beautiful morning, but it was really windy, especially at the top of the bluff. I enjoyed all the fungi I spotted along the trail. I hoped for more signs of fall, but it was still mostly green! But what a beautiful run!



I looked at Monday's WOD before signing up for CrossFit. There was running in the MetCon! Having just run 21 miles over the past 3 days, my legs twitched in protest. But off I went! The strength portion was a 16 minute EMOM with 4 rounds each of 1 10m seated sled pull, 40 seconds goblet squats (25#), 8 strict pull-up progression (I used a lower bar closer to the ground), and toes-to-bar warm up, which was 4 different warmups on the bar, starting from easiest to toes-to-bar. I stopped at step 3, which was knees to chest. The Metcon was a 15 minute AMRAP of 12 TTB (I modified with 6 knees to chest), 10 hang power cleans (45#), and 400m run. I finished 4 rounds of this when time was called.


With plans to hit another segment of the IAT on Thursday, I went to CrossFit on Wednesday. I'm so glad I did because we worked on our 3 rep max for bench presses. My 1RM is 95#, so I used that to base my target of 85-91%. Working with 2 partners, we rotated through lifts, hitting 75#, but failing at 80#. I won't deny being disappointed. I think we built too slowly and did too many reps, leading to fatigue when the bar got heavy. SJ said 75# was 82% and a good effort. The MetCon was a 15 minute E3MOM of 8 cal bike sprints. My sprints were consistent: 27 sec, 26, 24, 26, 27. This was hard!

I hit the road before the sun came up, hoping to beat rush hour traffic in Milwaukee on my way to the Holy Hill Segment of the Ice Age Trail. I have never run this segment before! The main attraction was the historic basilica atop a glacial peak that borders this trail. The weather was just perfect. This segment is located in the Kettle Moraine National Forest and there were lots of ups and downs, which is characteristic of this region as well as some piney woods. 



My biggest frustration was trying to find the spur trail that would take me to the basilica. For some reason, it was not on the map. While most of my time was spent on trail, I did some running on the main road to try to find my way to the basilica. I mean, how hard could it be to find the thing? I finally stopped to ask a guy who was meditating in front of a statue of Mary. He directed me to a paved path where I could find statues of the stations of the cross. I ran along the path, stopping to admire the statues, before finding my way up to the basilica. 



It was definitely worth the struggle. I climbed 178 steps to the very top and was rewarded with panoramic views of the area. I also popped in to see the main church. A mass was taking place, so I left. It's a very beautiful place in a serene setting. I really enjoyed my morning on this segment of the IAT and would love to visit it again!



After dropping Cocoa off at the groomer on Saturday morning, I took my shoes to the bike path, accessing it at a point near the salon. Bordering a golf course, this is a much prettier section of the path than where I normally run. I started out with heavy legs and seriously considered bailing. I knew how bad that would make me feel, so I kept on chugging along, feeling better as I progressed. It was such a pretty day! I didn't see many other runners--probably resting up for Sunday's Chicago Marathon. One guy on a bike rode up behind me and said I 'made it looked easy', which was nice to hear, even if it wasn't true! I also saw some painted rocks with encouraging words. Every little thing helped me finish this run, nice and steady with a strong push to the finish!

Off the Road

My youngest sister has been here all week, working hard to get things sorted out with my parents. Her background as a social worker provided a different perspective; as the week progressed, she found a Geriatric Care Manager to work with my parents. Initially, I had mixed feelings about hiring someone to help with my parents, but it's become clear that they can no longer manage on their own. I knew that my mom's dementia had been progressing and that she does a really good job of covering it up, but with my sister staying at their house, it was much worse than we knew. Both Lisa and I live about 45 minutes away and with both of us working, it would be impossible to take on the job of managing their medical and financial needs along with everything else. In addition, there has been tension between the 3 of us, as we all have different ideas of what is best for my parents. I think this would likely increase as my mom's condition deteriorates. Having an objective qualified professional monitoring their conditions and needs will hopefully mitigate some of that. She is a very knowledgeable person as well and it's nice to have someone savvy with regards to resources for my parents. 

Life doesn't get any easier, does it? We're still waiting for the spine specialist to outline the next steps for my husband. He had his CT scan this week and I'm thinking surgery is imminent. Stay tuned...

I need running and nature more than ever! How was your week? Have you been enjoying fall? Have you ever heard of or used a Geriatric Care Manager for your parents?

As you read this, I'm volunteering at the Chicago Marathon this morning with my Trail Sisters! We're going to be at Aid Station 1, which is right on State Street outside of Macy's. It's going to be so much fun. Check my IG later for photos!

I'm linking up with Deborah and Kim for the Weekly Rundown. 












22 comments :

  1. Oh Wendy. This is certainly a lot on your plate. Honestly, I love the idea of a geriatric care specialist. It will really help take some of the burden off you and allow you to still enjoy your parents and the relationship (and vice versa). Caretaking takes its toll and can come with so much resentment and anger… bringing in a professional sounds like an amazing thing. And I hope you get some answers and a clear path for your husband. In the meantime, your runs have been gorgeous. I am sure it’s been such a release for uou.

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    1. I don't know how I would stay sane without my runs--especially my trail runs!

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  2. Your trail runs on the Ice Age Trail look so beautiful, and that basilica, wow! I hope you have a fabulous time volunteering today at the Chicago Marathon!

    I'm so sorry to hear about your parents. I certainly understand how difficult it gets as they age.

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  3. You had some gorgeous runs this week!
    I think you are lucky ro have found a geriatric specialist. It sounds like their objective, professional perspective will be invaluable.

    I hope the news for your husband is good.

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  4. I can tell you from our experience that it's good to have a carer come in. One thing I picked up from who knows where now: they don't get as upset as we do as they only know your parents in the here and now, not how they were before. People can mask until you're with them for a good few hours. I know it's heartbreaking because we're going through it with a family member ourselves - do let me know if you need to talk outside blog comments though I'm sure you have plenty of support. Love your runs and views - that church! (LyzzyBee, in Spain, can't get logged in at all!)

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    1. I so appreciate your perspective--I knew it was you when you used the word 'carer', lol. Enjoy your time in Spain!!

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  5. Dealing with aging parents really is stressful. We have some of that as well right now and I remember how it tore my mom apart when she dealt with my grandmother and the stress w her siblings.
    Anyway- your trail runs look so pretty! Enjoy those beautiful views and temps! Have fun today

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    1. So so so grateful for running right now--it has gotten me through a lot! Besides that, it has brought the most amazing people into my life--like you! <3

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  6. Oh, I just finished watching the marathon!!! Looks like it was a beautiful day. And a women's WR. I can't wait to hear about your experience at the aid station.
    Sounds like a really difficult situation with your parents- I think it's a great idea to have a care manager. You're doing everything you can to make sure they have the care they need.
    As always, I love your trail runs! I love when there's a quest involved (I WILL find the path to that basilica!) And I like the comment you got on your Saturday run- I'm pretty sure i'm not "making it look easy" these days.

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    1. It sure didn't feel as if I was making it look easy! See, it's all an illusion! But he made me feel like I could push on--and I did!

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  7. Dealing with aging parents is tough, and I’m just entering that arena. I’ve known/suspected for awhile my mother is in decline (mentally), but she’s big time in denial of everything. Her cynical nature and narcissistic attitude don’t make for great attributes either. I think it’s gonna be a bumpy ride. Sounds like the outside help you enlisted will ease some of the burden.

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    1. My mom was in complete denial, besides hiding her medical issues from us. It was great that my sister was able to stay with them and get the real picture. I'm so happy that we're going to have the care manager in the picture to help keep things in order for us.

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  8. Oh, that sounds so stressful about your mother's dementia. I think there's something like the Geriatric care manager in Sweden. They are head nurses of sorts who manage the care for elderly but the actual care is performed by carers in the home or in nursing homes. I hope it all works out for the best for your parents and your family. Having the geriatric care person there should help a lot.
    Good work on the Crossfit stuff. The seated sled pull looks hard! I can't imagine how to do that sitting down!
    Your trail run looks lovely as always.

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    1. The Geriatric Care Manager is a nurse who checks in on my parents and manages their care. They don't need physical care-thankfully-so that is all we need right now.

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  9. Oh my goodness, that first photo of your Sunday run is spectacular! And as for that basilica in the middle of the forest - just wow. Amazing that you've never been there before!
    Very smart on getting an outside care person! It will relieve the tensions (which I guess are normal when people care about their parents).
    My parents are getting very frail and I'm so glad they moved into an assisted living apartment a few months ago. If ever there's an emergency, they just have to press a button and someone will be there within one or two minutes.

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    1. I was surprised that I had never been to Holy Hill before either--I went to college in Milwaukee and i knew about it. I just never went there.

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  10. Your trail runs as always look beautiful! It's fun to follow along as the foliage changes. And I'm sorry about your parents- dealing with them as they get older is so hard. hopefully hiring the care manager will help you navigate the next steps.

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    1. It's so hard because my mom never shared any of her medical issues with us. Now we are learning a lot and it's a bit overwhelming.

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  11. Wendy, I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through with the care for your parents. I am familiar with the stress between sisters...its so hard. Thinking of you.

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    1. Thank you so much. I have this constant knot in my stomach....

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