Saturday, September 6, 2025

The Calm Before...

...THE WEDDING.

EEEK! It's here!

Next week is my oldest son's wedding. All the planning is done and the big--very big--event takes place next weekend. This week will be all about preparing for the big day. I am excited and also anxious! I've been asked to give a speech at the wedding, and I have it written. I'm only working one day this week. My future DIL and I have plans on Wednesday for a mani-pedi, which will be relaxing and a chance for us to decompress. And yes, the workouts and runs will continue, right up to the big day. 

It feels like a marathon, with all the pre-race jitters! 

Weekly Rundown
Sunday: hiking in Wisconsin ~5 miles
Monday: Ice Age Trail run 6.5 miles
Tuesday: Yoga with Adriene
Wednesday: trail run 6.6 miles
Thursday: Auxiliary strength, running 1000m
Friday: run 6 miles
Saturday: Yoga with Adriene

My poor sister and her husband...on Sunday morning, I made them get up early and on the ferry so we could hike Parfrey's Glen before the masses arrived! There were a few early risers at the trailhead as well. As always, this reverent space did not disappoint. There had been a lot of rain last week, so the creek and the waterfall were flowing well. The glow of the sun in the gorge was just spectacular! 




After we finished Parfrey's Glen, we drove to Devil's Lake State Park with the hopes of sharing some of the fun rock formations with my sister and her hubs, but the hike was too much for my hubs, so we turned back. I will be back! On the drive to the ferry home, the parking lot for Parfrey's Glen was full and there was a line of cars parked on the side of the road. Glad we got there early! We enjoyed another boat ride and then said goodbye to my sister and her hubs. What a fun weekend!!


Before we left for home, I laced up and went for a run on the Lodi Marsh Segment of the Ice Age Trail. You may remember that the last time I attempted a run here, I was attacked by biting flies. With an air temperature of 49 at the start of this run, there was no risk of that! This was simply a wonderful run. I went early enough to catch the sunrise. Just as on the day before, there was a layer of fog which made everything so interesting!


I saw lots of mushrooms, wildflowers, and berries, too. A friend on IG commented that I could have made a salad! Although I'm not sure if anything I saw is edible.




The cooler weather has been such a gift! I can't remember the last time I had such a strong run. Garmin approved, too!


My former BRC teammate Keegan drove out from the city to run with me on my trails on Wednesday. He's a city guy, but is open to adventure. This was his second time meeting me for a run, and just like last time, we had fun! It was cool but very humid, and after a couple of miles, we slowed to a walk and never started back up. Our slower pace gave us plenty of time to catch up on life. He also indulged my need to photograph the mushrooms, which have returned to the preserve. We only saw one deer, though. I shared a fun reel on IG if you're interested in seeing some of our shenanigans.



On Thursday at the gym, we worked on back squats, the final lift of the trifecta that we will be working on in preparing for the fall powerlifting cycle. We started out with a review of proper form and worked on that using PVC pipes instead of barbells. Following that, we paired up with compatible lifters and loaded up the bars for 4 sets of 3 back squats. My lifts: 85#, 105#, 115#, 125#. I didn't get as low as I should have on the last one, and that will be my goal going forward. I'm still in my head about squats, and I need to get over that!

We finished up with 200m runs x 4. I chased some of my classmates, and we finished each run in just under a minute.

Friday morning was bright and sunshiny! But it was cool and it was windy. I ran out into the headwind, which continued to increase. By mile 3, I was pushing hard and that was reflected in my split time. But when I had a glorious tailwind on the way back and it literally blew me home. This was my fastest run since last spring. And if it takes a tailwind to do that, then I'll take it.



How was your week? Are you having cooler conditions? Do you get nervous before a big event? How do you manage your anxiety? 

I'm linking up with Deborah and Kim for the Weekly Rundown. 







23 comments :

  1. HOW EXCITING! I hope we get to see photos from the wedding! I imagine you'll be managing your stress by doing all your usual runs and workouts.
    Your photos are beautiful, as always! That hike with your sister looks incredible.
    And... I took your advice and did some Yoga with Adriene videos- I love it!

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    1. You know me well! Yes, I won't be missing any of those runs or workouts except on Sunday!

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  2. Woman after my own heart. I dragged my son to the beach early on Sundays all summer and we’d leave by lunchtime. Always passed a line of cars trying to get on the island as we drove away.

    Hope the wedding is amazing. Mazel tov!

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  3. That's a beautiful sunrise! I do get anxious before big events. The way I manage it is to run! Although now I'm not really able to run, so usually I just find something else to do. Good luck with the wedding! Thinking of you!

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  4. Very exciting! I'm glad you still get to run and gym in the run-up to it as otherwise you'd be all taper-y and weird! I was nervous before my own (tiny) wedding and the last one I went to, where I was sharing photographer duties (only secondary as the other one was a lot more experienced with better cameras, but still, argh).

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    1. Oh, I was an absolute wreck before my wedding, but once we were out of the church, it was party time!

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  5. How exciting! A wedding! You will have the best time! My MIL gave a speech at our wedding too and killed it. She told some great stories about my husband. I know you will do great. Speeches are one of the best parts of the wedding IMO!

    We had cooler weather this week, too. I did my last long run before my race yesterday and was wishing it was race day as the conditions were perfect - 45 with no wind! It will warm up this week so it will def be warmer on race day but oh well!

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  6. I'm sure you had a great time with your sister and b-i-l showing them your trails! Your son's wedding has come up fast! Enjoy every second of it and I can't wait to read all about it next week!

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  7. Looks like you had some pretty runs this week! Good luck with all of your wedding events! Can’t wait to hear all about it. Reach out if you need to vent! Have fun

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    1. You should send me a bill for my last virtual therapy! I really appreciate you!

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  8. Oh boy!!! I didn’t realize the wedding was happening so soon. That is so exciting! I hope it all goes smoothly. I’m sure it will be amazing no matter what!!

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    1. It's going to be a spectacle, that's for sure! I'll share all the details!

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  9. With the cooler temps last week, I also noticed the wind returned with them, LOL. I guess the wind may have been there (in some capacity) with the warm weather, but it certainly has a sting to it when the temps drop. BRRR! Good luck with everything this coming week and the big day ;-)

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  10. YAY!! I’m so excited for you, Wendy!
    Your week sounds wonderful - I love how much time you spend out in nature. That morning photo with the fog layer is just stunning.
    Have you already found your dress and shoes? And will you go to the hairdresser/beautician, or are you planning to do it yourself?

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    1. I bought my dress last year after they announced their engagement! I figured I should start looking and who knew, I found my dress immediately. We'll get ready at the bride's aunt's house. They have a whole team for us, lol. I hope I look like myself!

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  11. How exciting with the wedding coming up! I'd be nervous too, especially if I were to give a speech!
    Your running this week sounds like such a bliss, Parfrey's Glen looks fantastic and the early morning photos are stunning. I'm a big fan of hotter weather but not much beats forest walks in the autumn with that cool crisp air.
    That'll be good for you to work on those squats! I know what you mean about heavy squats getting in your head.. they ARE scary. But you're strong and you can do it!
    Enjoy the wedding!

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    1. I don't know what it is about squats that makes me anxious. I think it's having the bar on my back.

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  12. Next weekend already???? That's so exciting. Time has really flown. You are going to give a beautiful speech and it's sign to be a wonderful day! I know it!

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